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asked.
Here anyway.

A former submariner writes about AI, love, technology, and the words that make their skin crawl. Opinionated. Honest. Occasionally wrong.

SailorJ

Submariner · Writer · AI Thinker
Cocoa Beach, FL

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    Turn Your Read Receipts On

    I grew up Gen X — back when telephones were tethered to the wall and you actually had to be home to answer one. No pagers, no text bubbles, no phantom vibrations. Just a coiled cord and your own damn patience. Then came cell phones — those indestructible Nokias — and suddenly we could send tiny bursts…

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    “Kiddo” and Other Words That Make My Skin Crawl

    Why Some Words Just Feel Wrong — Even When They’re Meant to Be Friendly Language is weird. A single word, said the wrong way or by the wrong person, can trigger a visceral response. For me, that word is “kiddo.” I can’t stand it. Every time someone drops a casual “Hey, kiddo”, I feel like…

  • God’s Not Dead, He’s Just Been Ghosting You

    An emotional and philosophical exploration of divine silence in a chaotic world They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. But what if absence just makes you feel…abandoned? You light the candle. You whisper the prayer. You try to believe in something bigger than your rent, your inbox, and the pit of dread that opens…

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    Welcome to the AltaVista Era of AI

    Or: Why Your Chatbot Still Sucks, and That’s Okay By Sailor J | SailorJ.com The Year Is 1998 (But Make It AI) If you’re feeling a weird sense of déjà vu using AI tools lately, it’s because we’ve been here before. Not literally—but metaphorically, spiritually, and, frankly, technologically. Remember the early internet search days? Yahoo directories? AltaVista?…

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    God is Co-Dependent

    I. The Loving Stalker So here’s the thing: religion teaches that no matter how far you stray, you can always return to God. God forgives. God comforts you in times of need. God watches over you even when you fail, even when you reject Him. He waits. He hopes. He hurts when you hurt. He…

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    An In-Depth Exploration of Pornography, Titillation, Objectification, and Body Acceptance

    The complex interplay of nudity, eroticism, and visual stimuli shapes human sexuality. Men and women respond differently, with men favoring visual cues and women valuing emotional context. Both genders experience exhibitionism and voyeurism, evolving in a hyper-sexualized culture. A balanced approach fosters healthier relationships and deeper connections amidst superficiality.

AI & Tech

The future, mostly unimpressed

Relationships

Love, ghosting, and what people owe each other

Philosophy

Meaning, morality, and the big unsettling questions

Rants

Things that are wrong. On the record.